What I got out of the discussion was that, in order to make networking actually work for you, you have to be assertive and active. Quickly talking to people and getting their e-mail is not enough. One should take the time to get to know others, develop a relationship, keep up contact, and thus make it worthwhile for another person to know them. That way, the person will be more willing to help you out if they know you appreciate their time and efforts.
I personally feel that world is losing its sense of humanity. We have made such progress in the last decade that people are beginning to take on a persona of urgency. Our society has been putting unnecessary stress on its individuals and their insatiable need for faster end results for virtually any inconvenience. I believe this constant drive to "move forward" is whats prompting people to loose sight on what really keeps the world spinning. What I'm talking about are the frequent chances for intimate connections that we often pass up for superficial or fatuous reasons. The blame for this deterioration in human interaction gets tossed into all aspects of our lives with most of it getting sucked into the apparent "inescapable void" of social networking and technology. The thing is, its not in social media or the convenience of technology why society morphs drastically from one generation to the next. No, the real reason for our change is the same cause for every other conflict that finds a way to burrow so deep into our minds, from conflict of religion, marriage rights, and control over our fellow man( or woman). Simply put, the problem is us. People. Humans. Through the course of time, from the very start to the very end of our existence, we ourselves will always be the cause of our solutions and problems. From the moment the brain became conscious of itself, all future actions and events (excluding nature) can be rooted from that singular moment when entropy ceased and life (human consciousness) began. The brilliance behind it all is that it means we can change. In the end it all comes down to us. We have the power to judge what we will and won't due. Human interaction, the core of networking, is entirely dependent upon ourselves, from one human being to another. Setting aside the numerous things that separate us, if even for a moment, to make that connection to another individual, will always mean more than simply passing out a stack of business cards after a presentation. Take the time, form the bonds, and make friends (not co-workers) that will last past our generations.
What I got out of the networking discussion was that networking is building a genuine relationship with someone, getting to know who they are, finding things that interest the both of you, and maybe later rescheduling for lunch to follow-up. Through this, you can make connections, not only with that person but with others he or she may introduce you to. In the long run it can lead to opportunities that you can benefit from.
Who you know is always better then what you know; being a sincere person and making connections with people on a personal level you gain not only a mentor relationship but also a possible "in" in the future. I learned that being as straight forward as possible is the best way to communicate with someone; being vague and uncertain of what exactly you want from a person can and most often leads to an unintentional loss in communication. I normally don't ask many questions but to maintain communication and a network, I am going to need to learn be more active in my communication skills to form and uphold a network.
I agree with you and I also need to work on my communication skills to ask more questions. Being straight forward with someone is the only way that you can effectively get across what you need or want from someone, but saying it in a nice way. Having communication with a lot of people is how you can get to places you never thought you could get to.
Most people already know that who you know can be much more important how you did in school. What was most eye-opening for me was how it's best to go about it. I now know that it's best to cultivate actual relationships with people instead of try to use them simply to further your career. This is a valuable tool in furthering YOURSELF instead of furthering your career.
I agree with you kyle! It feels that you are always told its who you know but never well this is how you keep that relationship. It's already hard for some of us to keep relationships in general and this is even more of a scale up considering it's a professional relationship that will add to not just your professional well-being but also your growth as a person too. Very important that we seek out these relationships with the best intentions.
What I took away from the discussion was that you never know when you will meet someone who will truly impact your life. We interact with people every day, but it’s the interactions that turn into relationships that will help you in your future endeavors. Actually getting to know someone personally will allow you to create a contact that will last farther than just giving someone your email address.
Sara, I couldn't agree more. People are so important in life and it's up to us to connect with those we meet. Like you said, we will never know when that impactful relationship will come around, but when it does, we need to be ready. No harm can come from getting to know people, so why not do it all the time!
From the presentation, I learned that in order to be a good networker I need to be proactive and search for connections. In order to have a good connection I have to bond with the person on a personal level and take the time to know them. Great pieces of information that is crucial to remember, if you can get it, is their birthday, family, likes and dislikes, etc. The friendship might take me to places I would have never imagined going. It is also important to maintain the connection through follow ups with lunch or just simply staying in contact through email. Not only is knowing people is important, but they might increase my connections by introducing me to other people.
From our networking discussion, I learned that advice is much more important than any favor could ever be and that in order to obtain advice, true personal connections must be made. I never realized that a little really does go a long way. People notice when you remember their birthday with a handwritten thank you card or show up when they need you the most. In all, I learned that in order to be good at networking, you must first look to see how it can benefit others before it can benefit yourself.
I agree one hundred percent with Devin. I definitely think that advice is the most important aspect one can get from a successful adversary. Personal connections go a very long way and they definitely need to be made. Also people love when they are remembered, on their birthday or about their family, it shows that you truly care about that person and what they have to say.
I've learned from the Networking session to actually make connections with people, not trying to get something from them but actually getting to know them and their interests. Getting to actually know someone can be a valuable to your future and lead to opportunities that we may have not gotten if it weren't to others. The way you get things in life are through other people, everything we have is because we have gotten them through others help. It's extremely beneficial to keep up with the people that you network with because it will show them that you have a genuine interest and you are more interested in them than using them.
This is incredibly true and the core of what I got out of Josh's talk. When you take the time to truly get to know someone, I feel it can be much more rewarding. That type of communication and networking can develop into new friendships or connections that both people can benefit from. It is tough because the goal is to grow out, to become more successful, so those can be distracting when trying to establish a genuine bond.
Networking is a key to success in everyone's professional life. Successful people did not get where they are alone. We need to create relationships in life in order to receive advice to better our decisions and provide opportunities for us. From the discussion, I have learned how to better create professional relationships in my life and how one must approach asking for advice. Wording, tone, and body language are key components to networking with the right people and creating the beneficial relationships.
I also found what you mentioned about tone and body language to be very true and helpful. It's not just what you say to someone when you're trying to forge a connection, but how you go about saying it. It is important to leave a good impression in both your knowledge as well as your appearance and sincerity.
I felt the discussion on networking was very informative. I took great information away from the presentation ranging from how to introduce yourself to someone and approach someone, keeping in contact with others, acknowledging birthdays, building your network, and the usage of business cards to thank you notes and ways to begin networking by email. I feel that grades are important but networking, and building connections is essential to your future career as well and that was pointed out in this presentation. I gained more knowledge on networking skills, and how to create opportunities to network.
You have to not only, show interest but you have to genuinely care for the other person and not what you can get from that person. You never know where your sincere side can take you. Also showed me that in order to be successful you have to get out and meet people, because you can have a lot going for yourself but if can't apply that, and take opportunities to getting ahead with someone that is either doing what you want to do or even higher you will stay stuck. The key to being successful is the continual growth of yourself and bettering of yourself in every aspect, not just academics. Academics can only take you so far.
This was also one of my favorite parts of our discussion. It is important to be an active student with a fully balanced schedule. Internships are the best types of experience, they will get farther than a 4.0 GPA.
One of the most important things I learned and took away from the networking discussion was that we should not let grades get in front of opportunity because it is the difference when an inside person pulls you in. I also learned that you should show genuine interest in someone. You must also be assertive and confident in your direction and goals even if they are liable to change. You miss opportunities because you fail to make up your mind. And finally, perceptions are greater than intentions.
I really found the fact that grades shouldn't hinder you from making life decisions. As students we're not really told that grades ultimately don't matter. It was interesting to hear that point of view from someone that is living proof of it.
During the networking discussion, I learned that it is important to pay close attention to everything your conversational partner is saying. The details that you picked up on, while small and seemingly insignificant, can be very important later on. By sending an important contact a birthday greeting or inquiring about his or her family, connections can grow on a deeper level. Also, finding something in common with someone else can help relationships to develop and open doors for possible future interactions.
The networking discussion really showed me what I need to do in order to make professional relationships. I learned that making a personal connection with someone means more than just saying your name and asking for a job. People want to feel that they aren't being solely used for the people they know. I also learned that taking that extra step to acknowledge people and thank them says more than just an email or text.
My favorite part of our networking discussion was when we spoke about being assertive and confident over aggressive. I think this is critical in any type of networking experience because it helps build your credibility. Confidence truly is key, especially to help prove that you're worthy of a position.
Danielle, I really agree with what you're saying. I feel that being confident helps you in networking and almost every other life skill. It really is the key to being successful.
I learned many things from the networking discussion we had in class. I learned that when approaching someone, make sure you're genuinely interested in their story and what they do. You shouldn't be phony and act interested. They will be able to tell if you are genuine or you just want to gain something for yourself. I also learned that whenever someone takes the time to speak with me, I should write and hand written thank you card and deliver it or have it mailed. The most important thing in my opinion that I learned was to be assertive and confident when approaching potential relationships. First impressions are decision makers.
Overall the main lesson I gained from the discussion was the power of communication and social relations. Growing up we are taught more to get good grades and keep our head in the books than to go out and spend time with people. By the time most students reach college, there main concern is directed from this idealism, making them more likely to forgo taking extra activities to help promote themselves. The problem with this perspective is that deep down, people are more than just GPAs and degrees. Students should always try to get involved with their professors, but not just for the sake of getting a higher grade on the next test, but because they are a fountain of information and experience for students. As our speaker stated, making friends and keeping an active social relationship with people will always become more beneficial in the end than simply showing up to ask for a redo on a final exam. Its imperative that students try to get out of the mindset of keeping to themselves and only seeking assistance when the worse possible situation arises. Being able to get out there and make yourself known should become the main priorities drilled into students early on in there education. Humans naturally desire a deep sense of communication between one another, and its important that we as Lead Scholars carryout that fulfillment towards everyone we get the pleasure of meeting.
From our networking discussion, I learned the importance of asking for advice rather than asking for favors. That, often times, can lead to the fatal blow of not progressing in a particular networking project you may have; the "TNT" of sorts. Also, it tends to be human nature to look out for number one and that tends to lead to a selfish attitude. By slowing down and really listening, we are actively engaging with those we are speaking to versus preparing for what to say next. It will all come naturally; we can think quick enough. The third thing I took away was the importance of building relationships by showing interests in others. It is not all about our progression but what we can do for them.
I learned from the presentation that networking can get you further than grades alone. I also learned that if you really want a mentor or someone there to help you, you can't just ask them for a job or a favor because of who they are, you have to be willing to listen about how they got to where they are and you have to be willing to accept what they say to you. I also learned a few skills that will help with being a better networker. When contacting someone about meeting up with them you should have a set amount of time and let them know it does not have to be a lengthy conversation. When contacting someone either via phone, email, or in person you must ask a question, or they will not feel the need to respond. I also learned about different ways to remember people when going to a conference. Once you receive a business card you should put certain information you got from the conversation, such as where you met them, their birthday, and any family information. One other skill I learned was to send thank you cards after going over to dinner or any other occasion, I believe that is an amazing way to stand out and I really appreciate Professor Truitt telling our class all these different skills and I hope to make use of them wisely.
i learned from the presentation that even if you do not get the best grades in all of your classes, you can still graduate, and get a good job, if you know how to work with people. actually listening to what people have to say, and not talking too fast to allow the other person to process all the new information can be a lot more beneficial to the job hunting process than a higher graduating GPA on the degree.i also learned that people who just lean against the wall and just stay away from the crowd are actually really easy to talk to, and can have a wealth of information that can be very helpful to my job.
I am so sorry, I completely forgot about this until today, I understand if you don't accept it but I will respond either way. What I took away from the networking discussion was how important it is to make an effort. In order to stand out in a pool of candidates, you must go above and beyond to be noticed. The way I found most helpful to do is writing thank you notes to people you work with to show them how much their help and work helps you and how much you appreciate it. I know if I was given a thank you note for something I did for someone, it would stand out in my mind.
My response to the post though late... I realized it's all about effort. Many people are just too afriad to approach others and speak, so why not approach them instead? Also, keeping up with people you met is important. Many times I could have used the services of past teachers or friends but through time and loss of contact, I was unable to ask them for help and thus struggled with trying to acheive my goal. Lastly, it's not about the grades, but the overall experiance in a sense. He admitted his GPA was poor, but by being involved and connected, he still succeeded. This gives me hope!
What I got out of the discussion was that, in order to make networking actually work for you, you have to be assertive and active. Quickly talking to people and getting their e-mail is not enough. One should take the time to get to know others, develop a relationship, keep up contact, and thus make it worthwhile for another person to know them. That way, the person will be more willing to help you out if they know you appreciate their time and efforts.
ReplyDeleteI personally feel that world is losing its sense of humanity. We have made such progress in the last decade that people are beginning to take on a persona of urgency. Our society has been putting unnecessary stress on its individuals and their insatiable need for faster end results for virtually any inconvenience. I believe this constant drive to "move forward" is whats prompting people to loose sight on what really keeps the world spinning. What I'm talking about are the frequent chances for intimate connections that we often pass up for superficial or fatuous reasons.
DeleteThe blame for this deterioration in human interaction gets tossed into all aspects of our lives with most of it getting sucked into the apparent "inescapable void" of social networking and technology. The thing is, its not in social media or the convenience of technology why society morphs drastically from one generation to the next. No, the real reason for our change is the same cause for every other conflict that finds a way to burrow so deep into our minds, from conflict of religion, marriage rights, and control over our fellow man( or woman). Simply put, the problem is us. People. Humans. Through the course of time, from the very start to the very end of our existence, we ourselves will always be the cause of our solutions and problems. From the moment the brain became conscious of itself, all future actions and events (excluding nature) can be rooted from that singular moment when entropy ceased and life (human consciousness) began.
The brilliance behind it all is that it means we can change. In the end it all comes down to us. We have the power to judge what we will and won't due. Human interaction, the core of networking, is entirely dependent upon ourselves, from one human being to another. Setting aside the numerous things that separate us, if even for a moment, to make that connection to another individual, will always mean more than simply passing out a stack of business cards after a presentation. Take the time, form the bonds, and make friends (not co-workers) that will last past our generations.
What I got out of the networking discussion was that networking is building a genuine relationship with someone, getting to know who they are, finding things that interest the both of you, and maybe later rescheduling for lunch to follow-up. Through this, you can make connections, not only with that person but with others he or she may introduce you to. In the long run it can lead to opportunities that you can benefit from.
ReplyDeleteWho you know is always better then what you know; being a sincere person and making connections with people on a personal level you gain not only a mentor relationship but also a possible "in" in the future. I learned that being as straight forward as possible is the best way to communicate with someone; being vague and uncertain of what exactly you want from a person can and most often leads to an unintentional loss in communication. I normally don't ask many questions but to maintain communication and a network, I am going to need to learn be more active in my communication skills to form and uphold a network.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you and I also need to work on my communication skills to ask more questions. Being straight forward with someone is the only way that you can effectively get across what you need or want from someone, but saying it in a nice way. Having communication with a lot of people is how you can get to places you never thought you could get to.
DeleteMost people already know that who you know can be much more important how you did in school. What was most eye-opening for me was how it's best to go about it. I now know that it's best to cultivate actual relationships with people instead of try to use them simply to further your career. This is a valuable tool in furthering YOURSELF instead of furthering your career.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you kyle! It feels that you are always told its who you know but never well this is how you keep that relationship. It's already hard for some of us to keep relationships in general and this is even more of a scale up considering it's a professional relationship that will add to not just your professional well-being but also your growth as a person too. Very important that we seek out these relationships with the best intentions.
DeleteWhat I took away from the discussion was that you never know when you will meet someone who will truly impact your life. We interact with people every day, but it’s the interactions that turn into relationships that will help you in your future endeavors. Actually getting to know someone personally will allow you to create a contact that will last farther than just giving someone your email address.
ReplyDeleteSara,
DeleteI couldn't agree more. People are so important in life and it's up to us to connect with those we meet. Like you said, we will never know when that impactful relationship will come around, but when it does, we need to be ready. No harm can come from getting to know people, so why not do it all the time!
From the presentation, I learned that in order to be a good networker I need to be proactive and search for connections. In order to have a good connection I have to bond with the person on a personal level and take the time to know them. Great pieces of information that is crucial to remember, if you can get it, is their birthday, family, likes and dislikes, etc. The friendship might take me to places I would have never imagined going. It is also important to maintain the connection through follow ups with lunch or just simply staying in contact through email. Not only is knowing people is important, but they might increase my connections by introducing me to other people.
ReplyDeleteFrom our networking discussion, I learned that advice is much more important than any favor could ever be and that in order to obtain advice, true personal connections must be made. I never realized that a little really does go a long way. People notice when you remember their birthday with a handwritten thank you card or show up when they need you the most. In all, I learned that in order to be good at networking, you must first look to see how it can benefit others before it can benefit yourself.
ReplyDeleteI agree one hundred percent with Devin. I definitely think that advice is the most important aspect one can get from a successful adversary. Personal connections go a very long way and they definitely need to be made. Also people love when they are remembered, on their birthday or about their family, it shows that you truly care about that person and what they have to say.
DeleteI've learned from the Networking session to actually make connections with people, not trying to get something from them but actually getting to know them and their interests. Getting to actually know someone can be a valuable to your future and lead to opportunities that we may have not gotten if it weren't to others. The way you get things in life are through other people, everything we have is because we have gotten them through others help. It's extremely beneficial to keep up with the people that you network with because it will show them that you have a genuine interest and you are more interested in them than using them.
ReplyDeleteThis is incredibly true and the core of what I got out of Josh's talk. When you take the time to truly get to know someone, I feel it can be much more rewarding. That type of communication and networking can develop into new friendships or connections that both people can benefit from. It is tough because the goal is to grow out, to become more successful, so those can be distracting when trying to establish a genuine bond.
DeleteNetworking is a key to success in everyone's professional life. Successful people did not get where they are alone. We need to create relationships in life in order to receive advice to better our decisions and provide opportunities for us. From the discussion, I have learned how to better create professional relationships in my life and how one must approach asking for advice. Wording, tone, and body language are key components to networking with the right people and creating the beneficial relationships.
ReplyDeleteI also found what you mentioned about tone and body language to be very true and helpful. It's not just what you say to someone when you're trying to forge a connection, but how you go about saying it. It is important to leave a good impression in both your knowledge as well as your appearance and sincerity.
DeleteI felt the discussion on networking was very informative. I took great information away from the presentation ranging from how to introduce yourself to someone and approach someone, keeping in contact with others, acknowledging birthdays, building your network, and the usage of business cards to thank you notes and ways to begin networking by email. I feel that grades are important but networking, and building connections is essential to your future career as well and that was pointed out in this presentation. I gained more knowledge on networking skills, and how to create opportunities to network.
ReplyDeleteYou have to not only, show interest but you have to genuinely care for the other person and not what you can get from that person. You never know where your sincere side can take you. Also showed me that in order to be successful you have to get out and meet people, because you can have a lot going for yourself but if can't apply that, and take opportunities to getting ahead with someone that is either doing what you want to do or even higher you will stay stuck. The key to being successful is the continual growth of yourself and bettering of yourself in every aspect, not just academics. Academics can only take you so far.
ReplyDeleteThis was also one of my favorite parts of our discussion. It is important to be an active student with a fully balanced schedule. Internships are the best types of experience, they will get farther than a 4.0 GPA.
DeleteOne of the most important things I learned and took away from the networking discussion was that we should not let grades get in front of opportunity because it is the difference when an inside person pulls you in. I also learned that you should show genuine interest in someone. You must also be assertive and confident in your direction and goals even if they are liable to change. You miss opportunities because you fail to make up your mind. And finally, perceptions are greater than intentions.
ReplyDeleteI really found the fact that grades shouldn't hinder you from making life decisions. As students we're not really told that grades ultimately don't matter. It was interesting to hear that point of view from someone that is living proof of it.
DeleteDuring the networking discussion, I learned that it is important to pay close attention to everything your conversational partner is saying. The details that you picked up on, while small and seemingly insignificant, can be very important later on. By sending an important contact a birthday greeting or inquiring about his or her family, connections can grow on a deeper level. Also, finding something in common with someone else can help relationships to develop and open doors for possible future interactions.
ReplyDeleteThe networking discussion really showed me what I need to do in order to make professional relationships. I learned that making a personal connection with someone means more than just saying your name and asking for a job. People want to feel that they aren't being solely used for the people they know. I also learned that taking that extra step to acknowledge people and thank them says more than just an email or text.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite part of our networking discussion was when we spoke about being assertive and confident over aggressive. I think this is critical in any type of networking experience because it helps build your credibility. Confidence truly is key, especially to help prove that you're worthy of a position.
ReplyDeleteDanielle,
DeleteI really agree with what you're saying. I feel that being confident helps you in networking and almost every other life skill. It really is the key to being successful.
I learned many things from the networking discussion we had in class. I learned that when approaching someone, make sure you're genuinely interested in their story and what they do. You shouldn't be phony and act interested. They will be able to tell if you are genuine or you just want to gain something for yourself. I also learned that whenever someone takes the time to speak with me, I should write and hand written thank you card and deliver it or have it mailed. The most important thing in my opinion that I learned was to be assertive and confident when approaching potential relationships. First impressions are decision makers.
ReplyDeleteOverall the main lesson I gained from the discussion was the power of communication and social relations. Growing up we are taught more to get good grades and keep our head in the books than to go out and spend time with people. By the time most students reach college, there main concern is directed from this idealism, making them more likely to forgo taking extra activities to help promote themselves. The problem with this perspective is that deep down, people are more than just GPAs and degrees. Students should always try to get involved with their professors, but not just for the sake of getting a higher grade on the next test, but because they are a fountain of information and experience for students. As our speaker stated, making friends and keeping an active social relationship with people will always become more beneficial in the end than simply showing up to ask for a redo on a final exam. Its imperative that students try to get out of the mindset of keeping to themselves and only seeking assistance when the worse possible situation arises. Being able to get out there and make yourself known should become the main priorities drilled into students early on in there education. Humans naturally desire a deep sense of communication between one another, and its important that we as Lead Scholars carryout that fulfillment towards everyone we get the pleasure of meeting.
ReplyDeleteFrom our networking discussion, I learned the importance of asking for advice rather than asking for favors. That, often times, can lead to the fatal blow of not progressing in a particular networking project you may have; the "TNT" of sorts. Also, it tends to be human nature to look out for number one and that tends to lead to a selfish attitude. By slowing down and really listening, we are actively engaging with those we are speaking to versus preparing for what to say next. It will all come naturally; we can think quick enough. The third thing I took away was the importance of building relationships by showing interests in others. It is not all about our progression but what we can do for them.
ReplyDeleteI learned from the presentation that networking can get you further than grades alone. I also learned that if you really want a mentor or someone there to help you, you can't just ask them for a job or a favor because of who they are, you have to be willing to listen about how they got to where they are and you have to be willing to accept what they say to you. I also learned a few skills that will help with being a better networker. When contacting someone about meeting up with them you should have a set amount of time and let them know it does not have to be a lengthy conversation. When contacting someone either via phone, email, or in person you must ask a question, or they will not feel the need to respond. I also learned about different ways to remember people when going to a conference. Once you receive a business card you should put certain information you got from the conversation, such as where you met them, their birthday, and any family information. One other skill I learned was to send thank you cards after going over to dinner or any other occasion, I believe that is an amazing way to stand out and I really appreciate Professor Truitt telling our class all these different skills and I hope to make use of them wisely.
ReplyDeletei learned from the presentation that even if you do not get the best grades in all of your classes, you can still graduate, and get a good job, if you know how to work with people. actually listening to what people have to say, and not talking too fast to allow the other person to process all the new information can be a lot more beneficial to the job hunting process than a higher graduating GPA on the degree.i also learned that people who just lean against the wall and just stay away from the crowd are actually really easy to talk to, and can have a wealth of information that can be very helpful to my job.
ReplyDeletethis is federico rincon. i have a weird username.
DeleteI am so sorry, I completely forgot about this until today, I understand if you don't accept it but I will respond either way. What I took away from the networking discussion was how important it is to make an effort. In order to stand out in a pool of candidates, you must go above and beyond to be noticed. The way I found most helpful to do is writing thank you notes to people you work with to show them how much their help and work helps you and how much you appreciate it. I know if I was given a thank you note for something I did for someone, it would stand out in my mind.
ReplyDeleteMy response to the post though late...
ReplyDeleteI realized it's all about effort. Many people are just too afriad to approach others and speak, so why not approach them instead? Also, keeping up with people you met is important. Many times I could have used the services of past teachers or friends but through time and loss of contact, I was unable to ask them for help and thus struggled with trying to acheive my goal.
Lastly, it's not about the grades, but the overall experiance in a sense. He admitted his GPA was poor, but by being involved and connected, he still succeeded. This gives me hope!